Blogger Challenge--Day 1

It's gravy, baby has issued a blogger challenge, and I'm accepting it! The 31 Day Photo and Prompt Challenge starts today. Each day she has a prompt so we can tell everyone more about ourselves. I've been pretty dry in the idea well lately so I thought this would be perfect to get me writing again. Drum roll please:

Day 1: Post a picture of yourself and 10 facts about you.

This picture was taken a couple of years ago at Chuck E. Cheese. Most pictures that are taken of me, I hate so it was really hard to find one I would put on here.

• I love God with my whole being. I have chosen to live for Him and to follow Him no matter what.
• I am a wife to the most awesome man in the world. I never thought that I could be happy and so fulfilled like I am today after the really sad loss of my first husband.
• I am a mother to 5 children, his-hers-ours. I’m not specifying which is which because I tell them all that I am their mom whether I birthed them or not. I love them and am so proud of each one of them.
•  My favorite colors---purple, orange, red, and blue. Of course, orange and blue can’t be together because that would be Florida Gator colors and we can’t have that. ;) Purple and blue, and purple and red can be together, though, especially since those were colors for my weddings. It’s amazing how my colors have progressed through the years. I started with blue as a child and added colors to my most recent, orange. Why I like orange, I don’t know, but I really do.
• Blind as a Bat---that’s me without my glasses. I put them on before I get out of bed and take them off after I lie down and the light is turned off. If they aren’t in the certain spot on my bedside table where they belong I panic and then my wonderful husband has to get out of bed and find them for me. LOL
• My family and I live on a 5-acre mini farm and I absolutely love it! We’ve been here for about a year and a half and have so many plans to make it even better.
• I am a stay at home mother, but I home school my oldest daughter and volunteer in the public school for my middle children, so I’m really not home very much.
• 9 AM and 2 cups of coffee---that’s the time that I become sociable. Before that, don’t expect me to solve any problems, answer any questions or put up with any nonsense. Just ask my kids. LOL
• I love my group of online friends that I chat with pretty much every day!! We’ve been chatting for over 5 years. They are the greatest and I can’t wait until we all get together one day in person and have our spa retreat weekend.
•  John and I were married on “Chaos Never Dies Day” (November 9^th) and, boy, has that been appropriate for our family. One friend said to me the other day that I am dealing with two family schedules. I had not thought about it before, but she’s right. One weekend we have all the children, the next weekend we don’t and during the week we are doing activities with all the children.

A brief synopsis of my life. If you want to join me on this journey, I would love to learn more about you. Just post a comment with your link so I can read it and you can grab a linky at  it's gravy, baby for your blog too.

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Snowflakes and God's Beauty

During our family devotions last week, John did a great lesson. He reminded us of God's beauty in everything, even the snow. He again read Genesis 1 reintroducing the fact that God created EVERYTHING. He even created the snow. The he showed us all the varieties of snowflakes that God created. Here's the website:  Guide to Snowflakes.

We were all amazed at the variety. If we ever wanted to sit outside and investigate them, we sure wouldn't be bored...frozen, but not bored. Aren't they totally incredible? At the end, it shows a picture of a snowflake made by a snow maker. Also, we made our own snowflakes to hang on the window. There is prove that only God can give us the intricate, delicate, amazing beauty. We can not even come close to his amazing talent. Since then, I've been seeing all this snow just a little bit differently. It's still cold and dreary, but it's an amazing creation of God's. Everything He created is good even if we don't enjoy it as much as other things. Thanks, hon, for the reminder once again, and for giving me something to think about this week to bring God closer to me.

Organization Brings Happiness

Another great online thing I love is reading blogs and from time to time I will share some interesting articles that I enjoy and want to use in my life. This first one is from Michelle Connolly, of Design Your Life.


Sometimes life’s little tantrums make it hard to keep your equanimity. You get sick, you face one problem after another, your goals stall, your relationships struggle…

You can start to feel disorganized, frustrated and despondent – unless you have a plan for keeping yourself afloat. I suggest a daily checklist of things that will help you feel as though you’re hanging in there and doing okay.
Keep the checklist simple and achievable. It shouldn’t add to your sense of falling behind.
Here’s my personal checklist of things I aim to do every single day. I’m not perfect at doing everything every day, but simply having the checklist helps me focus when I’m not sure what to do with myself.
Use mine, or create your own.

1. Make your bed Don’t underestimate the sabotaging power of an unmade bed. It sends a negative message to your subconscious. Make your bed daily and you’ll form a habit of doing it fast (mine takes me about 3 minutes). It will mark the threshold into starting the day well, and provide a welcoming sanctuary when the day is over.
   
2. Deal with the urgent Every day, scan your emails, mail, noticeboard, phone messages, etc, for anything that demands prompt attention. Matters like notices for school, renewals and bills due for payment can become time-consuming or expensive problems later. Avoid those problems by dealing with the urgent today.
   
3. Get some exercise Take a gym class, go for a walk, lift tins of soup, lunge around your house while on the phone – do anything that gets you moving. And if you have a sedentary life, move as often as you can. Stop making excuses (no one is listening) and just do it.
   
4. Have something to look forward to Plan something that makes you happy every single day. I can’t wait to get out of bed every morning because I love sipping coffee and doing the crossword. And I love reading in bed at night. Your daily treats could be playing Angry Birds on your iPhone, taking a bath, making your favourite tea after dinner, listening to tunes – anything you enjoy and look forward to.
   
5. Eat vegetables They help you stay slim and healthy, so eat them! Add salad or vegetables to your meals wherever you can.
   
6. Do something nice for someone else This is a lovely habit to get into. Can you give someone a genuine compliment? Offer encouragement or compassion? Give a gift or do a favor? The important thing here is to choose things you can do lovingly – not things that feel like an imposition or burden. Find one to do every day.
   
7. Achieve something productive and/or meaningful Can you make progress on an important project, take time with a loved one, take action toward a goal? Forget busywork and instead focus on achieving something every day – big or small – that gives you a sense of meaning and/or achievement.
   
8. Tidy up at night Spending 10 minutes every night doing a quick tidy will make all the difference to the way you feel as you head to bed, and especially to the way you feel when you start the next day. Keep it simple – even if all you do is wash the dishes, put toys in a toy bin and clothes in a basket, and use a hand-vac to scoop up the day’s crumbs, you’ll feel pretty pleased with yourself.
   
9. Feel grateful Psych research has shown that counting your blessings boosts your happiness, so make it a ritual to reflect on the good things in your life every day. Do it as you eat breakfast in the morning or while you brush your teeth at night – but make it a habit. Got all your limbs? Have a nice house, good friends or a talent for ikebana? Lucky you!
   
10. Make a list for tomorrow Before you head to bed, make a quick list of things to do and remember tomorrow. This will get them out of your head so you sleep better, help you feel organized, and give you a map for the next day.
    
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    My turn--Sometimes I get to feeling scattered and struggling to figure out the priorities for the day. I've tried to do a couple of these daily even before this article, but several are ones I never thought of doing. Hopefully I will feel more in control even when things don't go as planned or I'm struggling to find the energy to make it through the day, if I add several more of these to my daily agenda.
    
    
    

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The Benefits of the Internet

I love the internet and Facebook. I've made so many connections that could never happened without them.

Friends and family--I have a group of online friends that I've never met but we chat daily and we've been friends for years. I've reconnected with real life friends from previous years. Also, it's much easier to keep in touch with family even if it is via status updates.

Research--It's easy to find any information on any topic, whether it's true and logical or not. It's nice to be able to pop online during a conversation we're having around the dining table and somebody asks a question and we can easily find an answer and discuss that for awhile.

Life Skills--Tips galore. So many ideas and thoughts and practices to make life easier, more exciting and less stressful. Ways to save money and decorate and celebrate.

Games--Finally, a way to play. Quick games that can be played with others or alone. Of course they can also be a way to waste time if you're not careful.

So many activities on so many paths. The internet is a great invention if it is used wisely.

It's Friday!! and Tme to Laugh

It's been a stressful week. One of those weeks that if anything that could go wrong it does. In and of themselves, nothing is devastating, but together everything builds up and just stinks to Timbuktu. I keep thinking of this blog and it's helping so that I can find a good point everyday. It doesn't necessarily make the struggles easier, but I can focus on something good for awhile...my new dishwasher, supporting a friend through a phone call, seeing the kids excited about the stuff we're doing to their rooms, watching the baby play and laugh, a wonderful husband that will support me while I support him through these weeks, the sunshine and warmth from a few of these winter days and the warm cozy, crackling fireplace.

It's Friday and we made it. Just a few more hours and the work week will be over. We'll be able to have fun together and enjoy some down time with the kids that are here. It's going to be a good, relaxing weekend where we can refresh and rejuvenate and be ready for a much better week next week.

To start the weekend off right, let's start with a couple of really good laughs. These are oldies, but goodies!

Baby Laughing--Who can't help but to laugh with this one? I gotta record my baby laughing though. :)

A Man's Funny Laugh

Now let's laugh through the weekend and have a blast!

My 2011 (and Beyond) Goals

These are my GOALS!! I do not need to have everything on here accomplished by December of 2011. The list is way too long. Goals are something to work towards, not something that must be completed. I will re-evaluate these goals to make sure I’m on track during the months of March, June, September and December. As long as I accomplish at least 2 or 3 items from each category by December, then I will have met my goals for the year.

• Spend more time in God’s Word.
• Complete 30 minutes of daily personal Bible Study. Don’t rush through it! 
• Have daily prayer time. Pray specifically using my prayer idea lists and my prayer requests from my spiritual journal. Don’t rush through it!
• Continue weekly family Bible study time and family meeting time. Add more variety and include the family goals, memory verse and new word for the week.
• Have weekly couple Bible study time.
• Now that we’re closer, attend Sunday school and church every Sunday morning, unless there is an illness or bad weather.
• Lead the Yahoo group “Bibles, Brooms and Breadsticks” so that we can read and study the whole Bible in a year. Don’t quit. Make it through the whole year.
• Spend more quality time with my immediate family.
• Re-institute Family Fun Day on Saturdays.
• Re-institute Family Game Day on Sundays.
• Have a Date Night with John once a week, even if it’s at home.
• Spend at least 30 minutes a week with each child doing something they enjoy.
• Make our house feel like a home.
• Have all the moving boxes emptied and have only organized items and labeled plastic totes in logical storage areas.
• Continue de-cluttering. Find at least 3 things each weekday to purge.
• Organize, straighten and make sure everything has a place.
• Complete monthly cleaning using my focused cleaning checklists.
• Complete seasonal checklists of cleaning, repair and preparations.
• Decorate so that John and my interests are a part of the house.
• Decorate the children’s rooms according to their interests.
• Make home a place we can rest, relax and be refreshed.
• Enhance the homeschooling and public schooling of our children.
• Keep a consistent routine and schedule for Breanna and her work.
• Do something fun and educational for all the children on our weekends or weeks during the summer. They all want to be included in homeschooling. This might be a field trip, science experiment or a project that relates to something Breanna is studying.
• Continue to attend most of the PTO meetings and other activities at the public school.
• Continue to volunteer to assist the public school in anyway I can, whether in the classroom or at school functions.
• Encourage my family and myself to be healthier.
• Exercise 30 minutes five times a week.
• Get the family doing some movement together, whether it’s walking, swimming or running around the yard together at least once a week.
• Encourage Breanna to do her exercise/movement each day of the school week. It needs to include strength, cardio, endurance and balance on alternating days so it will be varied.
• Make appointments to doctors, dentists and specialists as needed. Don’t procrastinate.
• Get everyone to their doctor and the dentist and specialist appointments, as required.
• Start using the Once a Month cooking idea regularly for food that will be ready in the freezer at a moment’s notice so we don’t have to eat out on the busy nights.
• Serve a healthy and filling breakfast by keeping the choices offered available. (See Momma’s Coffee Shop Menu for choices)
• Include a fruit of the day with breakfast.
• Plan a healthy lunch menu weekly so that those taking lunches (not just the ones at home) can also have something decent.
• Include a vegetable of the day with lunch.
• Serve the healthy lunches that are planned.
• Plan a healthy supper menu at the beginning of each month, or when Angel Food boxes are received.
• Serve the suppers that are planned.
• Eat at least three fruits/vegetables a day.
• Drink at least eight glasses of water a day.
• Communicate more frequently with people outside our household, using both technology and “old-fashioned” means.
• Make an entry to my blog at least three times a week. Possibilities to include Sunday Shutterbug, Menu Plan Monday, The Simple Woman’s Daybook, Ultimate Gratituesday, Toot Your Horn Tuesday, Works for Me Wednesday, Wordless Wednesday, Finer Things Friday, and Frugal Friday.
• Have John teach me how to use our server and how to input data on it so I can get our family webpage up and going.
• Invite friends or extended family over for Pizza and Movie Night once a month.
• Re-institute Tuesday as letter writing, card sending and phone calling day.
• Write thank-you notes when needed. Have the children write them also.
• Use up store-bought cards and start making cards for various occasions throughout the year.
• Have Breanna call each of her grandparents once a week.
• Create a genealogy website for the Hayes family. Get the information from Aunt Paula and figure out how to put everything online so that all the family can access it. When this is done, move on to the Hamilton and Yarman families.
• Minister to others through church and various organizations, where ever God leads.
• Tithe 5% of our monthly income to a church and/or Christian organization.
• Tithe 5% of my time to a local ministry. There are 168 hours in a week. 5% of that is 8.4 hours of service a week.
• Become better organized in thoughts and actions.
• Start and/or complete my journals.
• Home Control Journal
• Information-Encouragement
• Christmas
• Other Holidays
• Once a Month Cooking
• Home Spa
•  Home Office
• Use my control journals; don’t just have them on the bookshelf.
• Write in my personal journal daily.
• Complete Daily Routines regularly.
• Keep track of PCC points daily and meet my goals.
• Do something for myself.
• Have a mini spa treatment, watch a chick flick, or visit the coffee shop, or do something else to take care of me once a week.
• Practice playing piano again now that I have my grandma’s piano. I want to be able to play and not be embarrassed if others hear me.
•  Find ways to earn money and save money so John can come home and we both can work from home.
• Work on starting our business.
• Consider buying and renting out more houses, in the future.
• Plan, think and discuss before making any major purchases.
• Create a budget. Update as needed.
• Finish Financial Freedom University, even if it’s on our own, and get the workbook and all forms complete.
• Pay the bills on time every time and document payments.
• Use coupons and sales regularly for all purchases, if possible.
• Save 5% of income each month to eventually have 6 months of income in savings for emergencies.
• Save $50 a month for Christmas and Birthdays. It’s not enough yet, but it’s a start.
• Increase savings and investments for retirement.
• Become more self-sufficient and prepared for emergencies.
• We now have a large garden area. In the spring, plant ¼ of it to get into the swing of gardening and to learn what grows well in this area.
• Learn how to use the generator and the compost pile to get the most effective use from them.
• Determine what food we have growing on the land. Plant more patches and fruit trees, etc. Figure out how to the food that is growing effectively.
• Find other things that we can do to become self-sufficient on our land.
• Store 1 month’s worth of food and supplies.
• Prepare 72 hour kits for each family member.
• Learn more techniques for preparing for any emergency.

Happy New Year!! It's now official.So here goes.

Here are my expectations and hopes for 2011:

• I expect to grow closer to God, by spending more time with Him and witnessing His actions around me.
• I hope to have our home, family and work under God’s direction and guidance so that it is easy to see what we are supposed to do.
• I expect to be a better servant and child of God.
• I hope to serve God more by involving the family in more service projects.
• I expect to draw closer to my husband and to be even more in love with him by the end of the year.
• I hope that John and I can make new friends so we have people to invite over.
• I expect John and I to teach our children to draw closer to God through family devotions and other learning opportunities.
• I hope that the children can learn to make the right decisions even now so their lives can be blessed in the future.
• I expect our children to draw closer to each other so they can depend on their brothers and sisters and respect each other.
• I hope that each child can find at least one good friend outside of their family that they can spend time with and share memories.
• I expect each child to mature and to grow and achieve things to the best of their ability, not more than their ability.
• I hope that the children can be more stable in our home and feel more secure about their life.
• I expect our home to be a welcoming and open place for anyone who wishes to come into it.
• I hope to clean and de-clutter my house more regularly.
• I expect some wonderful, exciting, and happy times.
• I expect celebrations.
• I expect great family times.
• I hope for lots of the above.
• I expect some sadness, trials and tribulations.
• I expect some tough family times.
• I hope for very few of the above.
• I expect days that go smoothly and days that don’t.
• I expect myself to grow as a person-spiritually, emotionally and mentally.
• I expect of myself to set the example, in all areas of life, for what I expect from my family.
• I hope to remember that everything I do, I do it for the Lord. I want to be His servant and His example in all things.
• I expect myself to work to the best of my ability and to not waste as much time as I have in the past.
• I hope to re-start and maintain my routines so that life can run smoother.
• I expect to find joy, contentment and a love for life in at least one small thing every day.
• I expect to know that God is with me, even when it doesn’t feel evident.
• I hope to share my life more often with more people through emails, blogs, phone calls and old-fashioned letter writing.

AND FINALLY:
Most importantly, I expect and hope that everything we do, say and think pleases God and makes Him proud to have this family as His children.

A Fresh Year, A Fresh Start

2010 has come and is almost gone! It's been another full year. I really don't know where in the world it all went. Anyway, it's an absolutely beautiful December 31st, here in Ohio. 50 degrees and sunny. Not typical weather for New Year's Eve. I'm so thankful too, especially after the unseasonably cold weather we had this month.

Today I've got my windows open. It's kind of a symbol for me, I think. John and I got stuck in a rut over the last year. We've been struggling to make progress on a lot of things and by opening the windows, we are bringing some freshness into the house and getting a fresh start. We've done several projects this week to jump start our energies and our focus so this has been a good end to 2010 to start an even better beginning to 2011.

The warm, gentle breeze of fresh air is my symbol for getting a fresh outlook on things, a fresh energy level and a push to move to the next level in life. It's time to air out the cobwebs in my life and get everything clean and clear and beautiful once again.

This is my attempt to start that focus by noting my plans, goals, expectations and hopes for the next year in the next few posts.

Time to Re-focus

I've been meaning to write for the last 9 months and I keep procrastinating. Tonight, I logged into my blog and re-read what I'd written. Oh my, am I embarrassed. I'd totally forgotten about my hopes and expectations for 2010, which I'd posted and my goals for 2010, which I never did post. I am long overdue for a review of the year, since I went through 3 quarters without one. This year has gone by so fast, I really can't figure out where all the time went. I know I haven't accomplished nearly what I wanted this year, but I also know that progress has been made. Really, that is all that I can ask for, isn't it? Anyway, I think the next several posts will be some reflection on those goals, hopes and expectations. That will help me to re-focus my moments so that I can once again start to think about them, finding the purpose and cherishing them all, just like I was trying to do in January.

Exercise in All It's Glory

Exercise---is that a moment to love or not? I wasn't sure this morning. For 3 days now, I've been getting up before everyone else and exercising. I'm really proud of myself because usually after 2, I quit. So I've beat my record.

I think I've conquered my slackness though. If I can do what I did this morning, I have no excuse to not get up and exercise no matter what. Here's what happened.

I got up at 6 and so did the baby. My husband tried to keep him calm and get him to go to sleep. It didn't work so I brought downstairs with me. I got my coffee and my devotional book and did that while he was trying to get comfortable, which didn't work that early in the morning. I finally got that done and it was time to exercise--aerobic activity today.

Hummmmm......what to do? How do I exercise while holding the baby? I tried putting him down and he just screamed. I didn't want him waking up the entire household so I figured I would have to hold him. I turned on Wii Fit and figured I could use it. So I did 18 minutes of Step Aerobics with 20 lbs of added weight this morning. I thought I was going to DIE!! But I didn't.

During the step aerobics, at first I held him so he could see the TV. He was scared and wondering why I was moving like I was. He reached behind him and was holding onto my shirt really hard. It was funny. Finally I turned him around and held him tight to me and every now and then he would turn around and look at the TV. Finally, to top it off he fell sound asleep and when I was done I even laid him in a chair and he didn't move. Now I know what I need to do when he won't go to sleep, I guess. That made it a very heavy 20 lbs.

Was I loving life during those 18 minutes? Not really. Afterwards. Oh yeah! It was really sweet holding him even if it was hard. It gave me a better workout and it was a special time that we shared. Wonder how many more times I'll be doing that? I have a feeling a lot more. I hope I get my muscles built up before he gains more weight.

My 2010 Hopes

• I hope to clean and de-clutter my house more regularly.
• I hope to serve God more by involving the family in more service projects.
• I hope to remember that everything I do, I do it for the Lord. I want to be His servant in all things.
  
• I hope that the children can learn to make the right decisions even now so their lives can be blessed in the future.
• I hope that each child can find at least one good friend that they can spend time with and share memories.
• I hope that John and I can make new friends so we have people to invite over.
• I hope to develop a more healthy lifestyle for our family-more exercise and better eating.
• I hope to share my life more often with more people through emails, blogs, phone calls and old-fashioned letter writing.
• I hope to re-start and maintain my routines so that life can run smoother.
• I hope to have our home, family and work under God’s direction and guidance so that it is easy to see what we are supposed to do.

AND FINALLY:

Most importantly, I expect and hope that everything we do, say and think pleases God and makes Him proud to have this family as His children.

My 2010 Expectations

• I expect to grow closer to God, by spending more time with Him and witnessing His actions around me.
• I expect to be a better servant and child of God.
• I expect to draw closer to my husband and to be even more in love with him by the end of the year.
• I expect John and I to teach our children to draw closer to God through family devotions and other learning opportunities.
• I expect our children to draw closer to each other so they can depend on their brothers and sisters and respect each other.
• I expect each child to mature and to grow and achieve things to the best of their ability, not more than their ability.
• I expect our home to be a welcoming and open place for anyone who wishes to come into it.
• I expect some wonderful, exciting, and happy times.
• I expect celebrations.
• I expect some sadness, trials and tribulations.
• I expect to know that God is with me, even when it doesn’t feel evident.
• I expect love, mercy and blessings from God.
• I expect great family times.
• I expect some tough family times, although I hope very limited.
• I expect days that go smoothly and days that don’t.
• I expect myself to grow as a person-spiritually and emotionally.
• I expect of myself to set the example, in all areas of life, for what I expect from my family.
• I expect myself to work to the best of my ability and to not waste as much time as I have in the past.
• I expect to find joy, contentment and a love for life every day in at least one small thing.

Happy New Year--2010

Happy New Year to everyone!!!

I don't know about you, but I love to set goals, expectations, hopes and themes for the upcoming year. I'm a list maker. I can spend weeks on lists for the new year. In fact, I did. Now the key is to use them to make this the best year possible. Hopefully, by posting them on here, I will be more dedicated to working on them throughout the year. With them, I want to be able to love life even more in the little things and the little moments. The next several posts will be all my lists I have created. Feel free to read or pass over to your heart's desire.

Isn't it ironic?

I just created this blog this morning. All was going great! We even made it to church on time. We were planning on heading south to my family for a few days to finish out the Christmas season. Before that we had to get ready and eat a quick bite, when what to our wondering eyes appeared...a sick boy who vomited all over the dining table. In the blink of an eye, we moved the kids to the living room floor to finish eating. Then there were phone calls to make and messes to clean and obviously we were going no where. The family we were visiting was disappointed. We had gifts that weren't going to be given on time. Things just weren't going well.
After pouting a bit, I thought of my new blog...Loving Life Moment by Moment. What was I thinking when I came up with the name? I realized that the test was here, much sooner than I expected. It's hard to love life when 4 of 5 kids have been sick (of varying levels) over the last few weeks and when I feel like I've let family down again by not getting down there for a visit and my plans get changed unexpectedly (I'm horrible with last minute change of plans).
After the younger kids went down for a nap and I changed into comfy clothes and got a cappuccino, I sat and thought about the day and if I really wanted to do a blog by this name. I realized that I did and I was going to write starting today.
These were some of the frustrating moments, the unexpected, not fun ones. However, when thinking about it later, I realized that there is a purpose for it somewhere. It could have prevented something bad from happening or it could make something good happen that couldn't have happened before. I realized I may not love everything that happens each moment, no matter how much I want to, but I can still love life and know that it all happens for a reason and everything will work out. I also found my purpose for this blog---to remind myself with this blog and hopefully in doing so, share with others at the same time, that each moment is special and has a purpose, no matter what is happening in it.